Gosh, I've gotta say something else. Chemistry is important in a relationship but that chemistry does not necessarily equate to physical attractiveness. What one person might find attractive and pleasing may be a complete turn off to another person. Chemistry encompasses both the physical, emotional, spiritual and psychological.. its what makes up the "whole" person. The only way to truly experience chemistry is to sit face to face and talk. The internet is a pretty decent spring board because it allows you to conduct "interviews" if you will with persons of the opposite sex that spark your interest. The appeal is complete anonymity. I personally would not waste my time on any cat that was looking for a "cookie cutter" type woman. I've spoken to a few men that have hang ups with regards to physical features. They are funny as hell and good for a laugh (lol) but the real comfort comes from knowing that after the conversation is done I can release their ignorance into cyberspace and not give it another thought. lol
Gosh, I've gotta say something else. Chemistry is important in a relationship but that chemistry does not necessarily equate to physical attractiveness. What one person might find attractive and pleasing may be a complete turn off to another person. Chemistry encompasses both the physical, emotional, spiritual and psychological.. its what makes up the "whole" person. The only way to truly experience chemistry is to sit face to face and talk. The internet is a pretty decent spring board because it allows you to conduct "interviews" if you will with persons of the opposite sex that spark your interest. The appeal is complete anonymity. I personally would not waste my time on any cat that was looking for a "cookie cutter" type woman. I've spoken to a few men that have hang ups with regards to physical features. They are funny as hell and good for a laugh (lol) but the real comfort comes from knowing that after the conversation is done I can release their ignorance into cyberspace and not give it another thought. lol
they do. they just lie and say they don't because they are immature rats. that's my take on men. Most men have and will date plus size women. Infact I would go as far to say at least here in America most men will end up married to plus size women because let's be honest--there are alot more of them in America than the popular t.v. would have you believe.
To comment on everyone elses comment. it is totally a state of mind (once again) I don't know how many times when i would make some off comment about my body to a girlfriend for the first time she would be shocked because most of my friends didn't know I had hang ups about my body because I simply never acted like it. It is what you project, what you put out there that has more of an impact I think. It truly is what is on the inside that counts-- because if you are happy on the inside it will show on the outside. and happiness is darn attractive.
they do. they just lie and say they don't because they are immature rats. that's my take on men. Most men have and will date plus size women. Infact I would go as far to say at least here in America most men will end up married to plus size women because let's be honest--there are alot more of them in America than the popular t.v. would have you believe.
To comment on everyone elses comment. it is totally a state of mind (once again) I don't know how many times when i would make some off comment about my body to a girlfriend for the first time she would be shocked because most of my friends didn't know I had hang ups about my body because I simply never acted like it. It is what you project, what you put out there that has more of an impact I think. It truly is what is on the inside that counts-- because if you are happy on the inside it will show on the outside. and happiness is darn attractive.
you are all so right. it about being you and know what you want. I really like if you love who you are then men see that. it just stands out. so just be you. I know some many men that think Plus size Lady's are hot!!!!!!!! that is so cool to know...
you are all so right. it about being you and know what you want. I really like if you love who you are then men see that. it just stands out. so just be you. I know some many men that think Plus size Lady's are hot!!!!!!!! that is so cool to know...
Thanks for the compliment seaweed. (Seems my fan club is growing and I don't even have a pic up...amazing. lol)I have loads of fun on this site, which is probably a sad commentary on my life but what the hell.
Thanks for the compliment seaweed. (Seems my fan club is growing and I don't even have a pic up...amazing. lol)I have loads of fun on this site, which is probably a sad commentary on my life but what the hell.
I agree with layloni, I like the way she talks,the things she has posted on the blogs, she has a mind that I can relate to, I dont care if she doesnt have a pic, the girl is smart, and her words attract me.
I agree with layloni, I like the way she talks,the things she has posted on the blogs, she has a mind that I can relate to, I dont care if she doesnt have a pic, the girl is smart, and her words attract me.
To A dead redhead - you have entirely too many preconcieved notions of men to explain, but I would gander to say that you have some baggage unchecked that you chose not to explain. I have viewed many of your posts from subject to subject and believe that you know no man to be an honest equal to you...
Give yourself a break.
To A dead redhead - you have entirely too many preconcieved notions of men to explain, but I would gander to say that you have some baggage unchecked that you chose not to explain. I have viewed many of your posts from subject to subject and believe that you know no man to be an honest equal to you...
It is the size of the heart that matters most. If a BBW takes care of herself, dresses nice (not in sweats or spandex), loves herself, then she is the girl for me.
It is the size of the heart that matters most. If a BBW takes care of herself, dresses nice (not in sweats or spandex), loves herself, then she is the girl for me.
I don't even think the answer is that "deep". Some men and women simply feed into the media's portrayal of what is sexy. Find a man that appreciates quality and he'll see your inner and outer beauty. It won't matter to him that you're a plus size woman.
I don't even think the answer is that "deep". Some men and women simply feed into the media's portrayal of what is sexy. Find a man that appreciates quality and he'll see your inner and outer beauty. It won't matter to him that you're a plus size woman.
i personally think guys go for a confident woman i dont think its a size thing i think it is how they carry themselves and if they are happy with themselves no matter what size confidence is sexy all shapes and sizes and if you love youself then you are more likley to find someone that loves you ; )
i personally think guys go for a confident woman i dont think its a size thing i think it is how they carry themselves and if they are happy with themselves no matter what size confidence is sexy all shapes and sizes and if you love youself then you are more likley to find someone that loves you ; )
Okay, I'll have my two cents here, even though I doubt anyone will probably want it. I will give it anyway, as I often do.
I think that men and women have an 'energy' sensing thing. I think that if a male can see that a female is not confident, esteemed, and happy in her self, they stay clear. If they are healthy, and take care of themselves physically, emotionally; that is hot in itself!! You don't have to be skinny, plus size, athletic to be able to do that.
I know many men who date plus size women. And who often end up getting married to them. It is an inner thing that can radiate hey.
I think it also comes down to where someone is looking...as you know there are certain stigmas attached to certain places. Ie- nightclubs. Younger generation, my age, looking for trophy's or societally imposed perfect pictures.
I don't know, I think I might be a little too deep at times. But I know that for me, regardless of the fact that I am female, and it doesn't answer your question:- I have been with guys that what be regarded as foul looking by most people, too old, obese, whatever, and they have been absolutely marvellously wonderfully attractive and amazing to me.
It really depends where you go, where you interact.
I personally think that a woman who is curvy and cuddly, is most likely to be healthy and nurturing, and I know many guys who think the same. Even in the military.
Okay, I'll have my two cents here, even though I doubt anyone will probably want it. I will give it anyway, as I often do.
I think that men and women have an 'energy' sensing thing. I think that if a male can see that a female is not confident, esteemed, and happy in her self, they stay clear. If they are healthy, and take care of themselves physically, emotionally; that is hot in itself!! You don't have to be skinny, plus size, athletic to be able to do that.
I know many men who date plus size women. And who often end up getting married to them. It is an inner thing that can radiate hey.
I think it also comes down to where someone is looking...as you know there are certain stigmas attached to certain places. Ie- nightclubs. Younger generation, my age, looking for trophy's or societally imposed perfect pictures.
I don't know, I think I might be a little too deep at times. But I know that for me, regardless of the fact that I am female, and it doesn't answer your question:- I have been with guys that what be regarded as foul looking by most people, too old, obese, whatever, and they have been absolutely marvellously wonderfully attractive and amazing to me.
It really depends where you go, where you interact.
I personally think that a woman who is curvy and cuddly, is most likely to be healthy and nurturing, and I know many guys who think the same. Even in the military.
